Tag: agiftedglider

agiftedglider:

“That is what abuse is defined as, and I have done no such thing other than once, for which he and I have already talked out. So yes, you are misusing the term, and I’m on the brink of smacking you in the face with a cast iron pan for doing so, because I have no tolerance for people who misuse those terms.

Your ignorance is killing me. I don’t think I can handle it.

Honestly? I don’t trust your word. I don’t care what you say. When I talk to him myself, that is when I will take action. Don’t like it? Too bad.

Of course, this is assuming I don’t melt into a puddle of nothingness. It’s difficult not to when being forced to converse with ignorant people. It’s you who should not be capable of speech. That is the true salvation to this world.”

"And again, you’re the one who resorts to threats violence to get what he wants to hear out of people or when things don’t go your way. And again, go ahead. Prove you know a definition by splattering my grey matter all over the ground. I’m sure it’ll be a lovely shade of red, white and pink.”

“Alright then. Don’t believe my word as well as several legal documents. He has still given his full legal consent whether you believe it or not. You are the one continuing the conversation, I am not ‘forcing’ you into speaking to me. Goodbye. I am done speaking to a brick wall.”

agiftedglider:

“Hate to break it to you, but you’re just not worth the time and effort it would take to commit murder. Your argument is weak.

You’re not protecting anyone from anything. You’re misusing terms, and that gets on my nerves. You clearly don’t understand the meaning of what abuse is, so do not use the word until you do. It’s not that difficult to understand. You are the queen of ignorance for throwing around terms like that.

You have no place speaking for him, or anyone else. I will do as I please, whether you like it or not. Your argument has no foundation, as I have not done anything damaging to anyone aside from stomping his foot, and then I fixed his permanently damaged hands. 

Go get a little education before you try talking to me again. I can’t handle your ignorance.”

"Bluffing, huh? If those ‘gods’ are truly on your side and all, they should have no problem informing me of the date of my universe’s destruction.”

“Abuse; to treat in a harmful, injurious or offensive way. As per the most current dictionary, that is the definition. As per Kin’s own opinion, that is how you treated him and that is why he gave his consent for this in the first place. Written and signed consent that has been copied many times over for due process.

Whether I like it or not is irrelevant, as the proper legal procedures have already been taken and you are no longer welcome.”

agiftedglider:

“Guess what. I don’t care. I’ll do what I want, when I want, and if you don’t like it that’s just too bad. Lay a single finger on me and I’ll have gods from multiple universes to destroy this one. I have most of them in my corner. You’re lucky I don’t smack you in the face for abusing that term.

Abuse is categorized as injuring someone, whether emotionally, or physically. Whether against their will, or otherwise. The only thing I’ve done that can constitute the definition of physical abuse is the stepping on his foot thing. Don’t throw around terms like that like they’re nothing. Do it again and I will smack you in the face, because you deserve it for that.”

"So you’re a spoiled brat who gets ‘gods’ to do your dirty work when you don’t get your way, huh. Go ahead and smack me, you spoiled brat. Kill me if you want to. Prove you’re the mature one by resorting to violence and threats just to get your precious toy back. Make me bleed as much as you want. You’re not getting him back. Ever.

"Kin runs from you for a good reason. Ever imagine why? Because he believes you will hurt him again and I for one cannot blame him. Go ahead and explain to your ‘gods’ that you want to destroy a whole universe just because a girl wanted to protect someone from you. I’ll meet you in hell because Kin is mine. And nothing in the goddamn multiverse will change that.

Get out of my home, get out of my zone and get out of Kin’s life. Because you don’t get the privilege to be in it.”

agiftedglider:

“And what does he learn from that?

Nothing.

Whereas if he faces his fears, and you’re there with him through the panic attack, in time, he can get over his fears. It is a slow, steady process that is difficult for both parties involved, but it is necessary. Your ignorance astounds me.”

"Go lecture someone else, O’ Great Elder Sage of Wisdom. I’m no longer in the mood for thinly veiled insults. You want to insult me? Fine, stop sugarcoating them in a lecture. My decisions regarding Kin are no longer any business of yours. You’ve lost that privilege.”

agiftedglider:

“No. You’re ignorant. You are capable of anything. You just won’t. Stop using ‘I can’t’ as an excuse for something you simply don’t want to do. There is a difference that you don’t seem to understand. So many people hide behind that excuse, and it gets on my nerves a lot when people use it. Pushing, and forcing are two different things. Learn it. You are severely uneducated for someone who must be so much older than me.”

"Y’know what? Fuck it. Since you can’t seem to listen well enough, I’ll tell you.

He wouldn’t have a panic attack if he woke up to see me there with him. As in, he wakes up in a hospital but conked back home. Do you get it yet?”

agiftedglider:

“Anyone is capable of anything. You just don’t realize it until you have no choice. A person cannot heal unless they face their traumas head on. Masking it under kind words, and avoidance may be more comfortable, but a person will not heal. You may be fine with such blindness, but I am not.”

"Ugh, it’s like I’m talking to a brick wall. Not capable means not capable. I never said I wouldn’t bring Kin to a hospital if I had no other choice. I said I would not force him to do anything.

Arceus almighty, have you listened for the loophole yet?”

agiftedglider:

“Didn’t you listen? A hospital can’t fix what has happened to his hands.

Then you’re not as good of a friend as you could be. Tough love is necessary sometimes, and anyone who doesn’t believe that is ignorant. Maybe not as much as I use it, but it is necessary. It’s not taking advantage of someone. It’s giving a strong push to them to do what you both know they need to do, but won’t do for themselves out of fear, or pride.”

"I’m not talking about his hands. If he gets injured in the future.

I don’t think you understood or listened to what I said. I said that I can’t do ‘tough love’ outside of a battle. I’m not capable of it. If I am ignorant for not being capable of it, then fine. I am ignorant. I’m not going to hurt him or induce a panic attack just because I want him to get medical treatment.”

agiftedglider:

“That’s not going to fix it. The only way to give him full use of his hands is to repair the nerve receptors. I tried the calm approach, and that didn’t work. The hospital wouldn’t be able to do what I can do. Sometimes you have to show someone a little tough love. If you’re always passive, you could let them do something they might regret later down the line. If he hates me in return for full use of his hands, I can live with that, because I know he’d have full use of his hands.”

“If he gets injured one day and it’s something I can’t fix with the best of my ability, then I will take him to a hospital for treatment. The berries I use for the salve are the best things to use for burns here, no matter the species.

Kin trusts me to help him. I’m not going to take advantage of that to force him into a situation that he does not want without prior warning and a proper explanation. I don’t do ‘tough love’ outside of battles.”

agiftedglider:

“Didn’t I tell you to stop making snap judgements? I’m going to help him because if I don’t he will be disabled in a way he doesn’t have to be. He’s just afraid of how much it’s going to hurt, but he has to learn pain is necessary in life. Temporary pain now is more important than lack of use in your hands for your entire life.”

"I respect his decisions but I’ve also provided him with a burn salve that will help heal them as best it can. I was going to reapply it today. However, I’ve asked him politely and calmly first. I did not and will not tackle and restrain him to try to force him to comply with my own wishes.

I would have rather he go to a hospital for better treatment but again, I respected his decisions.”

"Do it and I’ll scratch your eyes out so you can be blind on top of everything else.”

“Go ahead, I don’t need ‘em.”

“I believe the words you used were ‘stop struggling’, yes? Do please tell me what that sounds like out of context. He already told you to get away and get off more than once. You clearly have functional ears, use them.”